A
Mediumship Reading reunites you and your loved
ones who are now living in the Spirit World.
Mediumship offers comfort, closure, healing,
peace, hope, and joy to both you and your loved
ones in Spirit.
A
Mediumship Reading can be life changing. If you
are ready to move forward in your life, a
Mediumship Reading can help you to release any
sadness, grief, hurt, and anger you may be
feeling.
Mediumship
helps you to know that your loved ones are still
alive in Spirit and that they are okay. If your
loved ones were hurting physically, mentally,
emotionally or spiritually before they made
their transition, please know that they are now
okay.
They also
want you to know that they love you very much.
They are still with you in Spirit even though
you may not have the high sensitivity required
to be able to see, feel or hear them as mediums
do. Your loved ones are aware of what is
happening in your life and still care about what
is going on.
When
someone crosses over into the Spirit side of
life, they usually don’t immediately become all
wise, all knowing, and all loving. People pretty
much retain their personality as you knew them,
but sometimes they may seem to have matured a
bit. They may show a greater love, sense of
peace, compassion, and understanding of things.
They may be more loving, accepting, and
forgiving. They may now see how they were from a
higher spiritual perspective and want to
apologize to you or someone else for their words
or actions while they were here.
As a
medium, I tune into your energy and into the
energy of your loved ones who are now living in
the Spirit World. I share with you what I see,
feel, and hear using my psychic sensitivity and
six spiritual senses.
Your loved
ones communicate with me using their thoughts. I
may hear names, words or phrases. I may feel
their personality traits, the way they passed or
the emotion of what they want to communicate to
you. I may see a memory that the two of you
shared together when they were here on the Earth
plane or I may be shown something about your
life that let’s you know they are still aware of
what is going on in your life.
Your loved
ones may come through with specific details and
important messages of love and healing or they
may offer you small references to validate that
it is really them and offer you a message. A lot
of times, it’s the little things that come
through in a reading that I couldn’t have known
that validate your loved ones’ presence. That’s
because it’s often the little things that mean
the most to us and that we remember and
treasure.
Please,
only make an appointment for a Mediumship
Reading if you have a sincere need and strong
desire to reconnect with a specific loved one in
Spirit.
If you are
skeptical, looking for proof, just curious, very
depressed, very nervous, or don't have anyone
specific in Spirit that you would like to hear
from, you would most likely detract from the
quality of your reading. That's because it makes
it much harder for me to tune into you and into
your loved ones and for the Spirit World to
communicate. So, relax and enjoy your reading.
The
information that comes through is very loving,
uplifting, and healing, truthful, compassionate,
and wise and for the highest and best for all.
Be assured that you will get whatever you need
most according to your Higher Self/Soul, your
Spirit Guides, and your loved ones in Spirit.
Before you
have a Mediumship Reading, talk to your loved
ones in your mind, your meditations or your
thoughts. Be sure and tell them the day and time
of your appointment. Tell them you want to hear
from them again in this way. Tell them you are
open and ready for communication to take place.
When you
get to the session, relax and have an open mind.
It’s a good idea to pray, meditate or just rest
in a few minutes of calm, silence before your
session. Your energy has a great influence on
how well the reading goes.
All
mediums never know what’s going to happen in a
reading. We are just the telephone or the
messenger passing along a message to you or to
someone you know here from someone in Spirit.
It’s a delicate balance of your energy,
openness, and readiness, along with my ability
to tune in to you and in to the Spirit World,
and your loved ones in Spirit’s ability to
communicate.
Sometimes
I will get names in a Mediumship Reading. If I
give you a name, please think of those you know
who are now living in Spirit as well as those
you know who are still living on the Earth
plane.
Think of
the people in your family, your distant
relatives whom you may not have known, friends,
neighbors, classmates, teachers, and anyone else
that you know that has that name.
If I get a
name from Spirit, it may be referring to one of
the following:
- Who the
person in Spirit is.
- Who the
person in Spirit wants you to pass a message
onto that is still living on the Earth plane.
It’s
sometimes hard to get the name Spirit is telling
me exactly right. Names may sound like the name
of the person you knew. If you recognize the
name I am telling you whether it’s someone in
Spirit or someone still living here on the Earth
plane, please speak up and tell me so we can
move on and learn what the message is.
As I share
information with you, it's important that you
acknowledge who's communicating from Spirit and
how you knew them. Once you have acknowledged
who is speaking from Spirit or who Spirit is
speaking about that is still living here on the
Earth plane, your loved ones can then hopefully
relay a message to you or for you to pass onto
someone else who is here.
If someone
in Spirit wants you to deliver a message for him
or her to someone else, it's important that you
try and do so. It can be very healing to the
other person and help them to move forward in
their life knowing that their loved one in
Spirit is still with them.
You may
need to ask your spouse, partner, family,
relatives, friends or colleagues about the name
or information that I gave you when you get home
in order to get verification and to understand
the full message.
People are
sometimes surprised by who comes through in a
reading. I find that if someone comes through in
a Mediumship Reading, it’s usually the people
that need to come through for whatever their
personal reason. We don’t always understand why
certain people come through and others don’t or
why maybe no one is able to communicate.
In order
to receive a message, you have to be open and
ready to receive. If you aren’t open and ready,
you probably won’t make the connection. Again,
relax, trust, and know that whatever happens
during the reading is for your highest and best
growth, healing, and understanding at this time.
If you
hear from someone in Spirit that you had
difficulties with, please have an open mind and
be willing to listen to their message. Sometimes
hearing from the people we had a difficult time
with can help us and help them to forgive, to
heal, and to move forward in our lives.
It’s
important to be patient, to listen closely to
what I am telling you, to acknowledge whoever
comes through once you know who it is, and to
make the best effort you can to validate the
message.
There’s
always a reason someone comes through even if we
don’t immediately understand why. We have to
trust that things are happening for the highest
and best for all concerned, including those we
love in Spirit, and have faith in knowing that
God/Source is overseeing the entire process.
Remember
to appreciate the message you receive and to
thank the Spirits who communicated during the
reading no matter what the message was, how
short or long the message was or who came
through from Spirit. It takes a great deal of
energy from you, me, and from those you love in
Spirit to be able to communicate in a Mediumship
Reading.
When I
tell you that the Spirits are pulling their
energies back and are leaving for now, please
let that be enough. Send a prayer of thanks to
God/Source and to those you love in Spirit for
what you received during the session, for their
messages of love and comfort, and for making
their presence known to you again.
Sometimes,
without intending to, it’s possible for mediums
to misinterpret who is communicating and what
the message is. If this happens, but you still
understand the message and who is speaking,
please be fair and tell me so we can move
forward with the reading.
Sometimes,
I may not connect with the loved one you were
hoping to hear from. If that happens, please
speak up and ask me to try and make the
connection for you. I will need to know the
name, age, and the relationship of the person
who is now in Spirit in order to try and make
that connection for you.
Also it
could be that, for whatever reasons, we just
aren’t able to make a connection with someone at
that time. It doesn’t mean there wasn’t anyone
in Spirit wanting to speak with you. This can
happen for all kinds of reasons. If we do not
make a connection, I suggest that you try again
later and continue to talk with your loved ones
in your thoughts, meditations, and prayers.
Continue to send them your love. They will
receive it.
It is a
blessing when loved ones in Spirit desire to
reconnect during a reading. I will always do my
very best to make a connection between you and
your loved ones, but no medium can promise that
a connection will be made, who will come
through, what your loved ones will say if they
do come through, and how long they will talk.
Mediumship
requires a certain amount of chemistry between
you, your loved ones in Spirit, your Spirit
Guides, and me as the medium/channel. You can
help increase the possibility of hearing from
your loved ones in Spirit by being relaxed and
saying a prayer asking your loved ones to
communicate during the reading.
Remember
our consciousness and the love we shared live on
in the Spirit World even after we choose to
leave our physical bodies. The love we shared
with one another is everlasting. Please know
that your loved ones are really okay. They are
still with you and they are guiding you and
supporting you on your journey until you meet
them again in Spirit.
Remember
you can continue to have contact with your loved
ones in Spirit through your prayers, thoughts,
and meditations. Also, be sensitive to the
subtle and not so subtle energies and signs from
your loved ones. This is their way of keeping in
touch with you and of sending you their love. It
pleases them greatly to know that you know they
are still alive and well in Spirit. Say, "Hi"
when you recognize their presence
After the
Mediumship portion of the reading, I give you
the opportunity to talk with me about your
personal concerns in a Psychic Reading.
The
psychic guidance you receive after the
mediumship part of your reading often provides
you with greater clarity, confidence, and peace
of mind.
Please
prepare a written list of personal concerns you
would like to receive psychic guidance on
physically, emotionally, mentally, and
spiritually and have the list with you during
the reading.
As you
talk with me openly and honestly about your
personal concerns, I offer you psychic guidance
in a loving, compassionate, wise,
straightforward, and sometimes humorous manner.
The information that I receive using my six
psychic senses is often meaningful, freeing, and
healing. I encourage you, empower you, and help
you to make positive choices in your life. I
share what I psychically see, feel, hear, and
intuitively know to help you co-create the life
you choose to live.
I will ask
you personal questions to help you clarify your
concerns, thoughts, beliefs, and feelings. I
will add to and expand upon the information that
you share with me. Together, we will explore
your personal concerns more deeply so that you
may arrive at a clearer understanding of
yourself, your life, and how you can co-create
the life you choose to live.
FREQUENTLY
ASKED QUESTIONS ABOUT MEDIUMSHIP:
Is there a
certain amount of time that I should wait after
someone has passed on before trying to make
contact with my loved ones in Spirit in our
Mediumship Reading?
There is
not a certain amount of time that you should
wait, but you do want to wait long enough so
that you are over some of the deepest part of
your grief. It’s important to be able to be
relaxed during a Mediumship Reading because
your relaxed energies help your loved ones to
come through. Therefore, you might want to
wait 3 – 6 months before having a Mediumship
Reading if you are really upset to allow
enough time to get over your initial grief.
Loved ones may not show up if you are really
upset because they don’t want to upset you
further.
What
happens to people who commit suicide?
When you
leave your physical body, your personality /
consciousness / your Spirit live on in the
Spirit World. While you are there, you take
time to reflect on your life and on your
choices and actions. You review your life on
the Earth plane and examine it closely. You
see how your actions and choices affected
others. You also realize that you still have
to learn the same lessons and work out the
same problems either in the Spirit World with
Spirit Guides and Spirit Teachers or by
reincarnating into another physical body
later. You can’t escape yourself and your
problems.
There is
no judgment by others on the other side of
people who took their own life. You judge
yourself on the other side and begin to
realize that you must take responsibility for
your choices. Often, there is some remorse for
having taken their life. There is a desire to
apologize and to let you know that they are
okay. They are learning from their past
choices and are being helped to understand and
overcome these issues by others in the Spirit
side of life.
When we
dream we saw someone who has crossed over was
that a real contact with him or her?
If it
felt real, it was real! Dreams are an
excellent way of reuniting with your loved
ones and for them to reunite with you. You are
more relaxed and open to making the connection
with your loved ones in Spirit while you are
in your dream state.
Do my
loved ones in Spirit hear and see me and know
what’s going on?
Yes.
They are not interested in what you do in the
bathroom or bedroom. They are coming from a
Spiritual World where their concerns are of a
spiritual nature. They check in from time to
time to see if you are okay and to help in any
way they can.
Your
loved ones hear your thoughts and prayers when
you speak to them in your mind and prayers.
You can ask them for help with things. You can
ask them to let you know that they are still
with you. If you are open to receiving
communication from them, you will be able to
use your psychic / spiritual sensitivity to
notice them through the things you hear, see,
and feel. Pay attention to synchronistic
events and coincidences as well for signs and
reminders of your loved ones. Your loved ones
are still with you and they love you very
much.
Is it okay
to try and make contact with my loved ones who
are now living in Spirit and to ask them for
help?
Yes,
it’s okay to still send them your love, to
talk to them in private, to ask for help, and
to pray to them, but don’t call on them all
the time because they need to learn and grow
in the Spirit World too. Also, know that it
makes your loved ones sad when they check in
on you and find that you are still grieving
over their physical absence. They know you
miss them. They miss you too, but they connect
with you when they can and when you need them.
Look, listen, and feel with your inner
spiritual / psychic senses and you will
recognize when they’re with you.
What
happens to pets when they cross over?
Pets
also go to the Spirit World and are with your
loved ones in Spirit. They sometimes come
through in a Mediumship Reading to let you
know they are okay and that they still love
you. You may sense their presence around you
as well. Look, listen, and feel with your
inner sensitivity to the higher, finer
vibrations of spirit around you. They are
there, sending you their love. You can also
choose to reconnect with them in a dream.
Will I see
my loved ones and pets that are now in Spirit
again?
Yes, you
will be greeted when you cross over into the
Spirit World by those you loved, including
your pets, and those who loved you. It’s a
wonderful, joyful reunion!
Do people
feel pain when they make their transition?
The
actual moment of transition from the Physical
World to the Spirit World is like waking up
from a nap. Your consciousness moves from this
awareness to that awareness very simply. The
actual act or moment of crossing over and
leaving your physical body is painless.
If
someone experiences pain before their
transition, they will not be in pain in the
Spirit World. You don’t experience physical
pain when you no longer have a physical body.
How far
back in my family tree could I hear from someone
during our Mediumship Reading?
There is
no limit. That's why you may need to ask
someone in your family when you get home about
the information that came through in a Reading
to have it validated. Remember you could also
hear from someone your spouse, partner, friend
or colleague knows in Spirit or knows here on
the Earth plane.
Can I ask
my loved ones a question during our Mediumship
Reading?
Let me
speak first and say whatever I am getting for
you from Spirit. Please let me finish
receiving the messages before you ask any
questions. When I am done talking, then you
can ask me something and we can try to get an
answer. What your loved ones say is beyond my
control, but you can certainly ask and I will
do my best to receive an answer for you.
What
happens when we die?
I have
found this book to offer much hope, love,
comfort, healing, inspiration, and
understanding on this subject:
"LIFE
AFTER LIFE" by Raymond Moody
A
wonderful article called "The Various Realms
of Spirit" by Mark Macy offers fascinating,
uplifting information about what our life is
like in the Spirit World. I highly suggest you
read his article:
http://www.worlditc.org/f_02_spirit_world_realms.htm
If
you are interested in hearing actual Spirit
voices recorded on radio and telephones and if
you are interested in seeing actual Spirit
faces recorded on TV's and computers, please
click on Mark Macy's amazing website link
called, "Sample Contacts" at:
http://www.worlditc.org
If you
would like to read a very informative book
about people who have been contacted by their
loved ones after they have crossed over, I
highly suggest you read, "Hello from Heaven!"
by Bill & Judy Guggenheim.
This
book will change the way you think about life
after death and about your loved ones ability
to communicate with you from the spirit world.
The authors have collected over 3,300
firsthand accounts from people who have been
contacted by a deceased loved one.
Reading
this book will help you to increase your
ability to see, feel, hear, smell, and
recognize your own loved ones who have crossed
over. This book also gives you a good idea of
what mediums experience psychically as they
give you information and messages from your
loved ones in spirit during mediumship
readings. "Hello from Heaven!" is beautifully
and lovingly written. It is truly an
inspiration.
HERE ARE
ADDITIONAL GRIEF AND SUICIDE RESOURCES:
GriefNet.org is an Internet community of
persons dealing with grief, death, and major
loss of all kinds. Their website is:
www.griefnet.org.
For grief support, The Compassionate Friends
is an international self-help, mutual-support
organization for bereaved parents,
grandparents, and siblings of children who
have died from any cause and at any age. The
mission of The Compassionate Friends is to
assist families in the positive resolution of
grief following the death of a child and to
provide information to help others be
supportive. Their website is:
www.thecompassionatefriend.org
For
those who need IMMEDIATE help with suicide or
suicide prevention, please call 1-800-SUICIDE.
(1-800-784-2433)
For suicide prevention assistance and for
family and friends who need help in coping
with the loss of a loved one due to suicide,
click on this link to the American Foundation
for Suicide Prevention
www.afsp.org/index-1.htm
and the National Strategy for Suicide
Prevention
www.mentalhealth.org/suicideprevention/default.asp.
For grief support, for those who have lost an
adult brother or sister, please see this
website:
www.adultsiblinggrief.com
For grief support, for those who have lost a
pet, please see this website:
www.petloss.com
GAYLE KIRK
49 Hill Road, # 31
Belmont, MA 02478
617-489-7717
E-mail:
Gomikirk@concentric.net
Website:
www.gaylekirk.com
©
Gayle Kirk, 2002
