For a moment stop and
think - you start your day at 6:00 am, rush out
of home, hit rush hour traffic, work hard, rush
home, cook, eat, watch TV, hit the bed and start
another hectic day. Have you become a socially
accepted zombie living for everyone but
yourself? Is this the life you dreamt of while
growing up?
Created by the
expectations of SOCIETY, we are conditioned to
settle for the second best. Loosing our identity
to "theydentity", we carry burdens from the
society to mold into what everyone is doing.
Your way of life may certainly be accepted by
society but is this what you really want?
Deep inside us lies the
passion to conquer the world and reach to
heights no one has ever achieved. Then why is it
that some of us succeed and some don't?
The answers lie in seeing
beyond our conditioning. To conquer the outside
world, we must conquer our inside world because
our outer world is a reflection of our inner
world. Once our inside world is in tune with our
true self, our outer world becomes beautiful
beyond our imagination. Every circumstance we
attract in our life is in direct relation to how
we think and feel inside. We must have a good
process internally to create great circumstances
around us. Two strong emotions, love and fear,
run our processes. When fear runs our process,
we sabotage our success and when love runs our
process we encounter success every step of the
way.
How do we know what
emotion is predominant in our life? From the
time we are born our environment, belief system,
values, experiences, and influences from others
create deeply embedded patterns in our
subconscious mind. It is not uncommon for a
person who believes that life is a struggle will
always attract struggle in his/her life. If you
are living with similar recordings from the
past, my suggestion would be to create new
recordings. Remember your life is a projection
related to your internal programming.
It is our responsibility
to move beyond the conditioning and break away
from the patterns to blossom to our unique self.
Following are a few
recommendations to discover the unique you:
>> The next time you feel
angry, guilty, or upset examine where these
feelings are coming from. Are you seeing the
situation from your past experiences or from a
fresh perspective. Remember no person can cause
you any pain without your consent.
>> Keep a journal and jot
down your daily highlights. If you don't like
writing, reflect on your day. We get insights
throughout the day to find our uniqueness, but
we have to pay attention.
>> Remember - thoughts are
there for you and you are not there for your
thoughts.
>> Expect the best and
leave the rest.
>> Stop comparing - you
are unique. There never was and never will be
another you.
>> Be thankful for what
you have.
>> Love your unique self.
>> Have fun and laugh - a
laughter a day keeps the doctor away.
>> Always give a smile or
blessings from your heart to each and everyone
you encounter.
>> Take responsibility for
your thoughts, words, and actions. Dare to be
yourself and ask for what you want - you will
get it!
